Shit I have wished to you a penis without any complications. But they will do it well. And you can go on with your Sexlive for all of us. I hope it goes on soon.
We trust in your cock!!
I hope you get the best possible result, thanks for keeping us updated!
In cock we trust?
Cock for president!
I highly highly suggest that all of you start using a VED / penis pump for 10 minutes a day or every other day even if you do not plan on ever getting a penile implant.
When you have ED, the lack of spontaneous erections causes a lack of bloodflow and oxygen to parts of your penis. Your corporal bodies (especially the tips) can begin to atrophy and have scar tissue/plaque in them. Dr Hakky showed me research that showed that VED 10m a day can rebuild this tissue and prevent it from shrinking and scarring. He is having me do this prior to my revision.
I can say from my own experience this is true
Lady #3 is 1-2 years older than I am. Not typicaly for me as I tend to go for younger. I knew her about 10 years ago when she was a bartender and I had a humongous crush on her. We did a few friend group things together but mostly I just knew her from going to her bar almost weekly. Turns out she never even knew I had a crush on her…
A few months ago I saw on IG that after being out of state for 6 years she had moved back. I messaged her, chatted her up a bit and said we should catch up and go on a hike or to get drinks. That fell through a number of times due to various reasons, but I eventually asked her if she wanted to go to a wedding in Lexington and she said yes. We ended up meeting up one night about a month ago for drinks, then ended up going out to a gay bar together, and back to her house after. I was not able to get her to have sex tho. We hung out a few times after that at each of our houses and still no sex (3rd time was more me not being in the mood). I actually sort of began to lose any interest in her, because she was showing me tons of interest and I have some faulty mechanism in my brain where if a girl is really interested in me I lose interest, but if she is a toxic bitch who shows me no compassion then I chase her.
This weekend was finally the wedding. 3 night together in a hotel. Part of me was not excited, who wants to spend 3 days together with someone you have sort of lost interest in. Which makes no sense because this girl has a pretty legit body, pretty hot face, masters degree, good job, super smart and rational girl.
First night we had sex, next morning we had sex, that night we both gave each other oral, next morning more sex, that night more sex and more oral. I probably missed another 1-2 sex in there. Missionary, doggy, and cowgirl. Lube makes the floppy glans issue way less of an issue and it really is helpful to find the right angles to penetrate. Some angle suck (when I am hitting the cervix?). I’ll tell you what. The implant fucking rocks. Sex whenever and however long you want. I would just excuse my self to the restroom real quick before hand and in 20 seconds Im ready to go.
I had planned on telling her and showing the implant but balked at it, mainly because I am not sure how many more times I want to hook up. If it were going to be more long term I def would have showed her. She is cool and would not care. She may have noticed, I mean she played with my balls a bit and gave me head twice. Especially since my tips are short of my glans it makes for an abnormal feel I am sure. She never mentioned anything or acted weird tho. Just kept wanting more and more dick haha.
Anyways, this thing is a superpower.
edit: edit: literally as I post this girl 3 sends me a text that she already misses me. It’s been 8 hours. Ugh haha
Well done man! I hope it’s OK if I ask a few more questions.
Can you share more about what it’s like to inflate? Like when you want to have sex, you have to excuse yourself and go to the bathroom to do it? Is that awkward? Once there, how long does it take? Can you be slick about it and inflate with one hand while having a conversation or is that not possible? Any change in natural erections or is that still a no-go? Are you still taking Cialis / viagra for or is that irrelevant? Can you feel the blood flow?
Most importantly, now that you’re a few months in, is the confidence of the implant changing your relationship to sex, pfs, libido, happiness? Are you spending less time thinking about it now?
Very happy for you!
Good questions… ones I was wondering before I got implanted.
Its pretty easy to “inflate”. You can technically do it with one hand if you needed to. Sometime when I try that the bulb slips out of my fingers and jams into my balls though haha. I prefer to use two hands. Typically what I have been doing is when the girl is over I will pump to 50-60%. Once we start kissing and escalating, I will quickly excuse myself (to the bathroom, to grab a condom, to move us to my bedroom, etc.) and just quickly pump up to 90%. It literally takes 15 seconds to pump from 50% to 90% (about 30-45seconds to go from 0% to 90%). One time this weekend while I was taking a shower I just pumped straight to 90%, went to the bed and started the process of foreplay and fucking her. The process is wayy easier and faster than I expected beforehand, I was overthinking it. Really you could go down on her and pump with one hand while doing that if needed.
I get really good glans bloodflow still. So my head engorges. It gets warm and feels good. So I do not take Viagra anymore. If my glans did not engorge, I would probably take Viagra.
You are not going to get a full on natural erection anymore once implanted. However, I have noticed increased warmth, bloodflow, and sensation to my penis when in a situation that would general cause an erection to a normal person. My confidence and happiness with this thing is a lot better. Especially after this weekend, knowing I can easily do a sex marathon. Not having to worry about losing an erection, not worrying about carrying a pill with me or when I need to take it, knowing that she just keeps wanting more because its so good to her.
Before the implant did you have poor ejaculation quality/ quantity, suffer from it just dripping out and suffer from poor orgasm ?
If so did the implant really cure these issues ?
I’m considering getting this done. All my other sides are cured. But I can’t live with these sexual sides anymore . I’m 37 and would rather die then go into my 40’s with these sexual sides. It’s literally to that point that I can’t suffer like this for another ten years . It needs to end
My orgasms were “fine”, but the volume was very low and did not “shoot” out like it used to. After the implant, the orgasms are still fine, but often even better. For example, when I got head over the weekend, both times, I almost pushed her off me it was so intense haha. My loads now shoot much further as well.
Did you have sensitivity issues before getting the implant?
I can get a decent erection but I basically have no feeling. Wondering if an implant might help this issue?
I did, but more sensitivity issues when I was flaccid than erect.
All of my “hard flaccid” symptoms are gone. No more cold numb dick with no feeling.
Interesting…
So no loss of orgasm and really no sensitivity issues you experienced with your PFS
But the implant did cure the reduced load and not shooting out issues
I’ll have to process this and think about if it’s worth it for someone to get this done if they are still looking at possibility of still having lack of sensitivity and lack of orgasm issues after the implant. I think it’s an easier yes to justify going through this if all of your problems would be solved. But still tempting
What are your hesitations? Obviously I understand there are many. And of course, we all hope to recover. But assuming that doesn’t happen (which I don’t accept for now), what do you see as the downsides?
Again, not diminishing the downsides at all. I know they exist. But what’s the main thing blocking you and others from doing it?
Having read @moonman1 thread, it seems like this is kind of the best solution to just get this done and move on with life.
I can’t even begin to imagine what a marathon sex weekend would do for my psyche and emotional well-being. As far as I’m concerned, he is cured. No, his libido isn’t back to normal, but as he’s suggested, I imagine the confidence of the implant will lead to more positive associations with sex and therefore more libido.
Personally, when I beat off it still feels amazing. And watching porn always makes me horny/hard. I just can’t reliably get or keep an erection when with my gf. And the depression associated with failure makes my adrenaline skyrocket when I’m having or about to have sex, leading to a vicious cycle.
The implant would fix that, right? @moonman1 would love your thoughts, too.
It does a lot …
I had one this past weekend . Friday, sat and sun. It was just once each day with an erection that was not that good and I took about 1000 MG’s of viagra over a three day period. It took 30 min to get off each time which compared to last weekend where I could not finish at all Is a major improvement. Also what I noticed is that orgasm felt stronger finishing inside partner….
The last two weekends was my first time having sex in a long time….
Maybe there is a use it or lose it element to the PFS sexual sides ? Living things are not made to not have sex .
Building your self up to even try with PFS sexual sides plus spending all this money on viagra is not easy but worth what it did for me mentally…also getting a taste of what life use to be like and not being completely alone is a lot to take in all at once. Because it’s immediately followed by fear with the reality of it not lasting. But this can be overcome.
I agree with your thoughts. Everyone has their own options and variables to weigh. But I can very objectively say that I wish I had done this sooner, like 10 years sooner.
I can see myself doing this, but my main (penis) complaint is 0 sensitivity.
Not sure if an implant would help this. Sounds good it helped you a little bit at least.
I am going to see a urologist soon, I’ll make sure he test my nerves. I think nerve damage is a likely cause of both perenium muscle wasting, hard flaccid and sensitivity loss.
I live in Sweden and we have “free” (paid by taxes) healthcare.