Monday January 19, 2009
24th day on Pct, I had only one awakening last night and woke up once at 6:00am (this is the time that I normally wake for work) I had a very strong morning erection. Erection lasted until 7am and I just stayed in bed for another hour. I think my erections are of decent strength and feel that it can get harder if I was aroused. By now, you guys know the story and nolvadex makes it harder to get aroused, as if there’s a wall between your desire and you.
As my mental clarity improves, it seems to bring out previous experiences and it makes me remember what I use to have. It is ironic, that we complain about how FIN robs us of our mental compacity and once we get it back, then we remember the times when we had that primal sexual desire, or the time we were so healthy and felt so young, that anything was possible. It is one thing that I’ve been thinking about the most and it takes a grip of my daily life. I talked to solonjk (from propeciahelp.com) aka s0b (meso-rx.com) and he help to put things into perspective (Reminds me of the movie Ratatouille and the Restaurant critic ask the mouse to cook him a plate of prospective). Solonjk has a difficult situation where he had FIN sides, but exhausted himself with physically grueling workouts coupled with taking some bad antibiotics for prostatis, that it has left him bed ridden for almost 2 yrs. When I was laying in my bed, I thought, man, God doesn’t give a shit about me b/c there are ppl in the world in dire situations… I’m afraid of losing my hair, losing my erections, being lonely for the rest of my life, how does that compare to a person who is living in the 3rd world, fighting everyday for their survival while being under a dictatorship. Also, this figurative person, may have a crippling injury from stray shrapnel and have to embrace what they have, just to help his/her family. There are always people worse than ME and i have to stop focusing on my self pity… the world is moving along without me instead of me proactively living and contributing in some way. I’ve wallowed long enough and I’m going to take a step forward each day and try to LIVE again.
Fuck, I think I’m feeling shitty b/c of nolvadex, but I can’t give up. I have another 32 days left on this and it is driving me insane. This drug definitely makes you emotional and if you don’t have the fortitude to deal with the emotional toll then don’t start PCT.
Getting back to ME, I gonna forgive myself for taking FIN and there is no time machine to reverse the wrongs I have made, so it is just a matter of changing how I look at myself. If I can’t get erections then I’ll take cialis, if I can’t find someone, then I’ll join eharmony.com or match.com or something, if I don’t have hair, then maybe a toupee will have to do. If you are upset with yourself then forgive yourself and find an alternative solution for your problem. We are not children anymore and mommy is not going to hold your hand. We must find a way to get passed this or be stuck in regret. Your Choice, You Choose! oneday
Tuesday January 20, 2009
25th day on PCT, nocturnal and morning erections are fine. I had progress in my propecia side effects, when I wake up to pee during the night and go back to sleep easily, there was no racing thoughts or perpetual anxiety nor fear, just a sense of calmness that I haven’t felt in a long time. Adding to the progress notes, I haven’t taken hcg for more than a week and my balls have retained their shape, initially it was almost perfectly cylindrical in shape and now it is oval and taking the shape of a slice of a small orange (clementine). Erections are good but not great and erectile strength fluctuate between 70-85%.
Emotionally, I feel like I’m in a mental purgatory and caught by the snare of propecia hell. I’m trying to break out of the negative feelings and went out on a date w/ a girl I’ve known. It definitely lifted my spirits and gave me a chance to interact socially with another individual. I have been in a funk for 2 years and contrast that to my former self which was completely outgoing and always tried to find humor in everything. It will take time to reclaim what I have lost and I have no doubt that I will do it too. First it will start with saying “HI” to strangers and try to start rogue conversations.
Through an email, I laid everything on the table with my doctor and told him about my PCT. He is a nice guy and I have been going to him for almost 15 years. It kinda funny, why this stuff is so private that I’m almost unwilling to share this information with a person who should have my utmost trust. I have told only 3 people of my situation and of course, I told you guys. I have kept everything a secret and feel that I don’t need people’s judgment, but need their support. Usually, my life is open book, but this time I have kept this close to the vest.
I’m almost half way done with PCT and can’t wait till the day it is done, but van-man reminded me that I’m “rolling a heavy ball up hill, you gotta stay after it. You can’t push the ball for a little bit and then assume it’ll keep going up the hill on its own”. He was referring to a one month booster of nolvadex after PCT is done, where I will stop nolvadex for one month then the following month, I’ll take nolvadex again to solidify my gains.
Keep battling ppl and we’ll get there together, oneday