Is it the same like mine? Please give some details Milando, thanks.
very similar but not the same. i need 20 sec to ejaculate lol
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This has been a persistent problem for me as well. Never dealt with it before PFS. Though earlier on when I was experiencing more severe symptoms related to ED, loss of sensitivity, low libido, I would use Viagra and would have a hard time achieving an ejaculation. Now I have moments of improved libido with some ED where I canāt keep from ejaculating, takes one minute (if I hold back). I can ejaculate even before achieving a full erection, sometimes canāt achieve one.
One note Iāll add is, when Iām in this very sensitive mode, if I do ejaculate, Iāll have better function the next day, and feel somewhat normal until it all comes back soon after. I wonder if anyone else experiences this? If I hold back and donāt ejaculate for a few days, my function is worse, ie, soft erection, premature, etc. That said, if Iām having an off week or so where my libido is dead, then ejaculating wonāt help at all, just stays bad or worse. My body is still teetering after all this time.
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Today i did sex with my gf. I came quickly again, feel so embarrassed. Itās a different feeling. It feels like there is a heaviness at the base of my penis and bladder area? This heaviness feeling makes me cum faster with short-lasting orgasms. But i donāt notice this too much when i masturbate. But in real sex, sorry for going graphic, the pounding of the bodies makes me cum so fast. It feels like i need to pee but instead i ejaculate and get an orgams.
Please, i know many guys here have the same problem, what is the explanation for this? I feel like itās all about the prostate? Because we have low libido, it should not be related to hormones or androgens. This symptom is somehow physical. There is no orgasm threshold now, back then there was a line of intensity build-up to reach an orgasm. Remember you fasten up your hand motions just before orgasm while masturbating? The excitement and building up feeling just before climax? Yeah, that is somehow gone now.
In sex, if i go slowly i can last longer, thats good news but whenever i try to speed up i reach to orgasm in matter of SECONDS. If i try to a little speed up and please my gf with faster motions and rhythm, bam!.. i reach climax. Anyone have the exact feeling?
(Also, one last thing is when i donāt masturbate for 2 weeks or so, i can come without touching my penis! One day i just tried to lower down my hard erect penis with my hands with just a slight pressure. I mean i just played with my penis without actually masturbating. And the little pressure of trying to lower down of the penis, the tilting, made me cum. My pelvic floor muscles were hard and had a little pain, discomfort. This made me think that its really prostate related. Penis muscles tilts prostate to cum, right? Anyone knows the exaxt process?)
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unfortunately i dont know the reason for this but i have exactly the same. climax building is almost gone. and i come very quickly. with masturbation not better to be honest. what i also recognized is that i cant edge with watching porn anymore. before i could watch it hours and have enjoyed it. now its like 5 min a bit arousal , then its gone and the porn become boring.
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Any thoughts on why we get this symptom?
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I use to have this really bad too. I figured this was for two reasons. Number 1: weakened pelvic floor muscles. Before I crashed, I could perform strong kegels and hold them for long periods. After I crashed, I could barely do one, and i would feel discomfort every time Iād try.
Second reason I thought was because I was so nervous and anxious about maintaining my erection, that I would psyche myself into cumming quicker so I didnāt lose my erection. It became a vicious cycle/mental issue for me, becAuse anytime I would lose my erection before ejaculation, I would get severely depressed afterwards. So my body got use to ejaculating quickly and it became the norm for years.
Iāve been having better luck with erections as of late, and Iām finding that the harder my erection gets, the longer I can last generally. So erectile dysfunction and PE seem to correlate with eachother, at least in my experience. I recently had shockwave therapy to my perineum, so Iām wondering if maybe that is having a positive affect on my pelvic floor and helping me last longer.
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I am a girl and I have pssd and I reach climax a lot quicker now as well (veeeery quickly for my normal self standards)
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I had never had a problem with this but for a while after crash I did experience it.
With time this has faded and I am almost back to normal in that respect.
Iāve had this since day 1 on fin. Took 5 doses (1mg for 5 days) and stopped because of it. To date, this is the only side effect Iāve had from fin that Iām aware of. Today Iām 4 months off fin, and it persisted.
Itās kinda rare in the sense that most people suffer from the opposite, so I do feel kind of āaloneā on this, because most people report ED and delayed ejaculation.
From what Iāve researched on this website and some other sites, Iām still pretty unsure of what causes mine (which is pretty severe, I cum in about 5-10 seconds), but Iāve read that it can be caused by low serotonin, so if I donāt get better after about a year, Iām planning on taking 5htp. Right now I havenāt researched much about it, but itās one of the things thats given me hope for my symptom.
I have to say that i have had prem. Ejac. also before PFS. The thibg is that i was almost always honry, and i didnāt need really much stimulation to get a bone. So, i took advantatge of that and used condoms with retardant. Therefore I could mantain a bone without problems, because even with few sensation i keep that bone and i also enjoyed.
However now, i do need much more stimulation and in case i use that condoms, my bone disapears. So, to enjoy sex is much more difficult, because the compromise now is hard to find.
I would say that we are not finishing earlier, but while before pfs we enjoyed and feel honry much early during being with our partner, now we do only feel honry much latter, we do need much more stimulation to feel the hot running through our veins.
I have it like Sara. I dont think your theories can cause what i experience. Climax building happens so much faster now. In 10 sec i come. Before it was 5-20 minutes.
But you still have loose and soft erections? If so, its weird. Because it really seems to me weak pelvic floor and PE is connected.
Do you have loose or soft erections? Very interesting, nothing at all except the delayed ejaculation? I have never seen a person who experience only 1 particular symptom. (I was in that lucky boat years ago, mine was low semen volume only before) @ebajjlzo
No I havenāt experienced delayed ejaculation, only PE. I think you read my post wrong, or maybe it was a typo?
I donāt have soft erections, only if Iām tired and āforcingā myself to have an erection. But I can mantain erections for a while if Iām horny. The PE is pretty severe tho, I cum in no longer than 10 seconds. I think orgasms are still āfineā, but it does feel different than before, it feels like something changed in my prostate or something. Also, lately Iāve been feeling the urge to pee more frequently than before, so maybe it is prostate related. Btw, pre-fin I never had PE issues. I could last an hour if I wanted to.
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Wtf. I have the same. what a shitty drug. I can come in a few seconds now. before 15 minutes. how can that be possible? i think coopers theory is good but dont explain this crazy difference (from a few seconds to many minutes). wtf
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This is interesting for me to think about in hindsight.
For 2017 and early 2018 I had issues being super fastā¦ I didnāt consider it PE at the time but in hindsight, maybe it was. I was still taking dut then. I could be done in a minute or so easy. It was sometimes annoying and sometimes awesome because it was so easy to get done.
After stopping dut I went to the other extremeā¦ delayed ejaculation. It takes a LOT to get me there now most of the time. Itās very strange. I would honestly much prefer PE over DE, because now itās like a 30+ minute struggle/workout to make it happen and thatās just too much to be doing all the time. Occasionally itās fine but not every time. My sensitivity was never been the same though Iāve had some weeks better than others.
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Believe me, i would rather pick DE over PE 
Leaving your woman unstasisifed in bed because you cum in 30 seconds, is very hard to overcome. I feel so bad because of this. Im trying kegels now again, i will do it forever now. Hope that helps, i donāt care about myself anymore but for her.
Anyone had a significant improvements about PE please share your story and solution, thanks.
Same here, I used to be an edge master and have a lot of stamina and now it is the opposite it feels like my sex drive has gone ADD, I get turned on and off in a matter of seconds. Watching porn I can be into it and the next second completely bored with it. This has to do with penis sensitivity, I guess you are also numb down there when this happens?
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