我也一样
Today i did sex with my gf. I came quickly again, feel so embarrassed. It’s a different feeling. It feels like there is a heaviness at the base of my penis and bladder area? This heaviness feeling makes me cum faster with short-lasting orgasms. But i don’t notice this too much when i masturbate. But in real sex, sorry for going graphic, the pounding of the bodies makes me cum so fast. It feels like i need to pee but instead i ejaculate and get an orgams.
Please, i know many guys here have the same problem, what is the explanation for this? I feel like it’s all about the prostate? Because we have low libido, it should not be related to hormones or androgens. This symptom is somehow physical. There is no orgasm threshold now, back then there was a line of intensity build-up to reach an orgasm. Remember you fasten up your hand motions just before orgasm while masturbating? The excitement and building up feeling just before climax? Yeah, that is somehow gone now.
In sex, if i go slowly i can last longer, thats good news but whenever i try to speed up i reach to orgasm in matter of SECONDS. If i try to a little speed up and please my gf with faster motions and rhythm, bam!.. i reach climax. Anyone have the exact feeling?
(Also, one last thing is when i don’t masturbate for 2 weeks or so, i can come without touching my penis! One day i just tried to lower down my hard erect penis with my hands with just a slight pressure. I mean i just played with my penis without actually masturbating. And the little pressure of trying to lower down of the penis, the tilting, made me cum. My pelvic floor muscles were hard and had a little pain, discomfort. This made me think that its really prostate related. Penis muscles tilts prostate to cum, right? Anyone knows the exaxt process?)
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unfortunately i dont know the reason for this but i have exactly the same. climax building is almost gone. and i come very quickly. with masturbation not better to be honest. what i also recognized is that i cant edge with watching porn anymore. before i could watch it hours and have enjoyed it. now its like 5 min a bit arousal , then its gone and the porn become boring.
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Any thoughts on why we get this symptom?
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I use to have this really bad too. I figured this was for two reasons. Number 1: weakened pelvic floor muscles. Before I crashed, I could perform strong kegels and hold them for long periods. After I crashed, I could barely do one, and i would feel discomfort every time I’d try.
Second reason I thought was because I was so nervous and anxious about maintaining my erection, that I would psyche myself into cumming quicker so I didn’t lose my erection. It became a vicious cycle/mental issue for me, becAuse anytime I would lose my erection before ejaculation, I would get severely depressed afterwards. So my body got use to ejaculating quickly and it became the norm for years.
I’ve been having better luck with erections as of late, and I’m finding that the harder my erection gets, the longer I can last generally. So erectile dysfunction and PE seem to correlate with eachother, at least in my experience. I recently had shockwave therapy to my perineum, so I’m wondering if maybe that is having a positive affect on my pelvic floor and helping me last longer.
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I am a girl and I have pssd and I reach climax a lot quicker now as well (veeeery quickly for my normal self standards)
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I had never had a problem with this but for a while after crash I did experience it.
With time this has faded and I am almost back to normal in that respect.
I’ve had this since day 1 on fin. Took 5 doses (1mg for 5 days) and stopped because of it. To date, this is the only side effect I’ve had from fin that I’m aware of. Today I’m 4 months off fin, and it persisted.
It’s kinda rare in the sense that most people suffer from the opposite, so I do feel kind of ‘alone’ on this, because most people report ED and delayed ejaculation.
From what I’ve researched on this website and some other sites, I’m still pretty unsure of what causes mine (which is pretty severe, I cum in about 5-10 seconds), but I’ve read that it can be caused by low serotonin, so if I don’t get better after about a year, I’m planning on taking 5htp. Right now I haven’t researched much about it, but it’s one of the things thats given me hope for my symptom.
I have to say that i have had prem. Ejac. also before PFS. The thibg is that i was almost always honry, and i didn’t need really much stimulation to get a bone. So, i took advantatge of that and used condoms with retardant. Therefore I could mantain a bone without problems, because even with few sensation i keep that bone and i also enjoyed.
However now, i do need much more stimulation and in case i use that condoms, my bone disapears. So, to enjoy sex is much more difficult, because the compromise now is hard to find.
I would say that we are not finishing earlier, but while before pfs we enjoyed and feel honry much early during being with our partner, now we do only feel honry much latter, we do need much more stimulation to feel the hot running through our veins.
I have it like Sara. I dont think your theories can cause what i experience. Climax building happens so much faster now. In 10 sec i come. Before it was 5-20 minutes.
But you still have loose and soft erections? If so, its weird. Because it really seems to me weak pelvic floor and PE is connected.
Do you have loose or soft erections? Very interesting, nothing at all except the delayed ejaculation? I have never seen a person who experience only 1 particular symptom. (I was in that lucky boat years ago, mine was low semen volume only before) @ebajjlzo
No I haven’t experienced delayed ejaculation, only PE. I think you read my post wrong, or maybe it was a typo?
I don’t have soft erections, only if I’m tired and ‘forcing’ myself to have an erection. But I can mantain erections for a while if I’m horny. The PE is pretty severe tho, I cum in no longer than 10 seconds. I think orgasms are still ‘fine’, but it does feel different than before, it feels like something changed in my prostate or something. Also, lately I’ve been feeling the urge to pee more frequently than before, so maybe it is prostate related. Btw, pre-fin I never had PE issues. I could last an hour if I wanted to.
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Wtf. I have the same. what a shitty drug. I can come in a few seconds now. before 15 minutes. how can that be possible? i think coopers theory is good but dont explain this crazy difference (from a few seconds to many minutes). wtf
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This is interesting for me to think about in hindsight.
For 2017 and early 2018 I had issues being super fast… I didn’t consider it PE at the time but in hindsight, maybe it was. I was still taking dut then. I could be done in a minute or so easy. It was sometimes annoying and sometimes awesome because it was so easy to get done.
After stopping dut I went to the other extreme… delayed ejaculation. It takes a LOT to get me there now most of the time. It’s very strange. I would honestly much prefer PE over DE, because now it’s like a 30+ minute struggle/workout to make it happen and that’s just too much to be doing all the time. Occasionally it’s fine but not every time. My sensitivity was never been the same though I’ve had some weeks better than others.
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Believe me, i would rather pick DE over PE 
Leaving your woman unstasisifed in bed because you cum in 30 seconds, is very hard to overcome. I feel so bad because of this. Im trying kegels now again, i will do it forever now. Hope that helps, i don’t care about myself anymore but for her.
Anyone had a significant improvements about PE please share your story and solution, thanks.
Same here, I used to be an edge master and have a lot of stamina and now it is the opposite it feels like my sex drive has gone ADD, I get turned on and off in a matter of seconds. Watching porn I can be into it and the next second completely bored with it. This has to do with penis sensitivity, I guess you are also numb down there when this happens?
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PE (Premature Ejaculation) is due to PFS because PE can originate from ED (Erectile Dysfunction) which is one of the PFS symptoms.
It started for me during my last year on Fin before crashing (been on it for 7 years) and it is still there 3 and a half year after quitting cold turkey. PE /DE, Major Brain Fog, Lack of Motivation and loss of muscular strength and stamina are all part of my PFS package.
Although I had experienced improvement for all the rest, the PE/DE is at the moment worse than ever. Last year I had a lot of improvement though while being on vacation and it lasted a while after. But now it’s back stronger than ever.
Boosting testosterone (Through weight lifting, Supplements like tribulus, and Progesterone cream) may improve things (it does for me).
Lack of testosterone induce loss of sensitiveness. As we grow old Testo dramatically lowers especially after 65…we are getting a preview of the 70 year older version of us sex drive.
Logically boosting T should get some sensitivity back then > more pleasure then > easier to maintain erection as the stimuli is more efficient then > more stamina then > no more Premature Ejaculation. In practice it works to some extent, but the whole problem in my case comes again when I down cycle Testo boosters (I take Progesterone and Tribulus every other week).
Hopefully time will help with this I am only at 6 weeks with the Progesterone/Tribulus combo.
Hope to see more posts and feedback on PFS sufferers who also experience or did experience PE at some point.
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Same problem.
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I have PE almost exactly how the op and Cooper describes.
I had amazing sex with my girlfrend before pfs, now I can’t satisfy her because as soon as I try to go faster I’ll ejaculate in seconds. Never had this problem in my life pre pfs. Interstingly, I had delayed ejacuation from an SNRI I was on years ago, just like @borax describes. Now every encounter with my gf is just embarressing for me, and unsatisfactory for her.
Has anyone recovered from this symtom? anyone improve?