Womans, Relationships....

General Discussion
#1

Hey Friends,

How is it about Contact to Womans or even get into an relationship with Womans, is it possible? My own answer is no cuase i cant feel the love, i cant feel the girl and on the other side, when i cant feel myself the woman can´t feel me?? is that true?
Does the Woman feel less feelings when she doesnt get the Contact with my positive Emotions, with my heart energy?

let you tell my story.
I met a girl when i was brainfogged. I felt there is something between us and she felt it too, we had some kisses… but there was no chance to light the fire. I was not able to feel her, i felt so fogged… i even didnt felt the kiss… it was just a robobtic mechanism but no feel. Then she told me that she´s unsecure, she needs time. I told her that i cant feel anything and thats its hard for her to get my real inner self in that kind of state. okay… it went on, we had contact over the last months like every 2 days on phone for 30- 60 minutes… in the conversations, i was also not present… i was fogged, I talked with no emotions, it was just a mechanism but no feel…
like 2 months ago she was in holidays in italy… she hasnt told about that… what was happen and things like that but after she has kissed me, she told me a few times that we should met for some dinner or got to cinema or something like that…
Now after making me hope over the last months almost eveyday… 2 days ago she told me that she met another guy in italy… she had contact with him also over the last months but i didnt know it… sghe kissed a guy in italy too and i didnt know it… and know she made the decision against me and for him… i told her, you cannot really know who i am and what you feel about me as long you know not myself in a healthy unfogged state…
i didnt know about the things but it was a kind of phone battle between me and the italian guy and at the end i lost… i was fogged! … i feel kind of desperated and guilty… but what had i could do? nothing… she simply couldnt feel my heart… there was no emotion. its not possible with brainfog…
i think its better to stay away from womans in this kind of state…

what you think people? isnt it crazy?

#2

Can you still shag okay and stuff?

#3

I think many of us have the same problem. Even though you feel like you have no feelings, you can still enjoy the companionship of a partner and that can be pretty special too. The right girl will understand what you are going through and little by little you will get better. It may take a longer time than what you’d like, but I’ve read your posts on the raw food diet and think you are on the right track.

#4

He is on the right track. Feelings will come back little by little. There is nothing worse than the feeling of knowing you should be feeling or acting a certain way but cant’ because your brain is still lagging behind.

Japanther, keep doing what you are doing. It will get better.

Joetz, you are right. You can still enjoy the company of the right woman should you find her. And, if you are lucky enough to be in the situation where she wants to get physical, you can still do things to get her off. More so then “normal” men. If you actually take your time and do the foreplay right, you will be looked upon differently then other guys who just go in for the wham bam thank you maam type action. Relax, take your time, go down and please her correctly. It will go farther than you think. She will be pleasantly surprised by your willingness to please her. I’m speaking from experience.