I have these ups and downs at the moment. Couple days I am horny AF and can have sex 3-4 times a day. Then I have a phase where I dont want to see a pussy. Wich is becoming more and more a problem. Its been for this now for a week. And my GF wants sex twice a day. As a men you can not show weakness and have to fuck her, no matter what.
But I am really struggling to get a boner. And if I get a boner, it simply goes down during sex. Its a pretty destructive feeling. Also because the girl is 23 and I am 38. She complains all the time that my dick going down and is not good etc. I play it down by saying that its normal sometimes etc. But it stresses me that my dick goes down during sex. I have some Viagra here but it gives me headaches as hell the next day so I try to overcome this phase until my libido comes back. Yes, sounds not like the best girl for me. But I see it as fun and joy with her. Nothing serious. Otherwise I would have say good bye already.
I started taking Zinc again 6 weeks ago. But everything was fine until last week. I had rock solid boners the last 5 weeks. My dick was really as hard as stone. I will stop taking Zinc again. But I can not imagine that its the Zinc that makes this. Even though its an 5ar inhibitor.
Another thing is, my gut biome is messed up ever since I took Accutane 23 years ago. And with Fin it got even worse. In 2012 I guess I picked up a parasite on the Canary Islands. Ever since my life is hell. I react to pretty much every food. I am currently in Thailand and can not eat anything anymore without inflammation.
I bought me some stuff to kill those parasites once and for all. Tinidazole 5 days. Then an Antibiotic. And later Albendazole. I tried to kill these parasites with herbals for 7 years now. Nothing ever helped. I wasted 5 figures on doctors, supplements and herbs. Now I go the antibiotics route. If that will not change a thing, I will do a stool transplant. It looks like it is superb for people with gut inflammation. And I am sure Accutane and Fin messed up our gut biome. If that will be corrected, the body will start to work again.