Unsavoury Behaviour of PropeciaHelp.com Members

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#1

I’d like to draw the forum’s attention to the behaviour of THETIGERSHULL and mcibofh in this thread:

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A few members of the forum have suggested that asparagus might help improve symptoms of PFS. There seemed to be enough anecdotal reports to warrant a small and inexpensive experiment on my part, so I decided to buy a heap of asparagus and try it this weekend and report any difference to the thread.

In return for this experiment, members like THETIGERSHULL and mcibofh believe it is appropriate to attack me.

It isn’t.

This forum should be a sanctuary for us. We have enough to deal with in our own lives without unwarranted attacks by people who really should know better.

Please if you see behaviour of this nature, call it out. Bullying and attacking people is NOT appropriate.

#2

i agree,i for one will be trying the asparagus,what have you got to lose apart from a few pounds,it may make you feel better…

#3

Why do you post nonsense? Try it and report some fact. Justquitdut said TRT and HCG ect, why don’t you try that also? Why are you so gullible? Some dude said spinach to? Did you try it? If any food fixed this why are people still here after years? Good god! If researches look at shit like this what do you think they conclude. YOUR AN IDIOT? You don’t need mental help & move on to real problems. You actually have a fucking blog about your hair! The rest of us have major CNS damage ect. You make this all look like some kind of joke. STUPID!!! What idiotic bandwagon will you prematurely support next. I thought you were getting coaching form Bernard. Your pelvis book fixed you.

#4

Read my post in the asparagus thread, we can fix this by creating two forums. Those that want to complain about their symptoms and how they hate Merck can talk amongst themselves. Those that want to hear about treatment options and accept what has happened can talk in another forum

#5

Mcibofh- my heart really felt bad for you. I took an hour out of my own schedule to call you and reassure you that over the next 2+ years your symptoms would improve. I did that because I care about people afflicted with this condition. You don’t listen and all you do is spew negativity. Get yourself in check. I went from a cold shriveled penis to now strong erections and penis hangs full and normal. This Condition DOES improve an there are some things that have helped along the way. Even a 30 minute walk a day helped on some days. I get the negativity, I was there too. But don’t be a douche bag, it serves no purpose

#6

I totally agree. Negativity should be directed at the enemy, Merck, and not your brothers.

I also believe that those who post ‘Positive’ and exciting ‘discoveries’ can tend to get carried away by using words like “Cure”, “100% recovered”, or leading people to believe the single hot item of discussion is the only thing required. This can invite criticism imo, justified or not. So post responsibly.

Its reasonable to say PFS is complicated, requires a holistic approach for body, mind, hormones and attitude. And it takes time to recover (not just weeks, or a few months).

And then there are the posters, who after being given advice and instruction, are selectively choosing parts or pieces instead of ALL the advice, or try something for a short period of time and then rush back to complain something doesn’t work. Not everyone will experience the exact same results for any given item. AGE, GENETICS and LIFESTYLE are different for everyone.

It’s understandable this is expensive, time consuming and very difficult to change bad eating habits, but ultimately it’s YOUR choice and responsibility and there are many free and cheap things you can do to improve yourself. I’m doing extremely well with recovery thanks to what I’ve learned on PH, and hope to share info and help the new guys.

I’m intent on being open minded, positive and helpful. Even if I’m wrong about something, I won’t allow myself to be offended. This helps defeat my own negativity, another enemy.

#7

Well said!! As I write, I have marked improvements from asaparagus, including a full vivid sexual dream last night! I don’t think it’s a cure, but a damn great treatment right now

#8

I almost never replied to this baby-ish thread

Chris, as soon as you don’t get your own way you see fit to try and Shame people by naming them in a thread with your objective to try and get others on your side like Fina-prick, you are so desperate to receive praise and support from other members, you look Very silly.

I speak for myself and don’t need anybody to hold my hand

@fina-shit face-truth

Yes I was in the mental home for 3 times for a total of 3 months on and off… Your point being?

Yes Propecia made me crazy and insane for a time and very suicidal, so very kind of you to mock the mentally unstable, I’m sure John Santmann and Danny Stewarts family would be so proud of you!

Your biggest fault is the fact you believe everybody else’s condition mimics your own and you expect us all to be making the same progress as yourself

Go suck on your asparagus dummies

#9

I’m guessing he didn’t see my post.

Defensiveness produces toxic emotions and responses. Fight this temptation.
And it is impossible to expect a good result from a negative response.

This is part of PFS recovery, fighting your own thoughts and behaviors.
I can say this because I’ve been in the exact same mindset before.

#10

If your own words reflect badly on you how is that someone else’s fault?

#11

Because you thrive on highlighting it and stirring things up

Your what I would called a snitch

#12

If you didn’t behave like a dick there’d be nothing to “snitch” on.

Take ownership for your actions. Stop passing the buck on to those who call you out.

#13

Chris, please note I do take ownership of my own actions

Hence the reason why I will never go back on my words

You and Fina are fuck faces… There you go, I’ve said it again!

And I need no back up

Like McIbofh said… You are making us REAL PFS sufferers and this condition look like a total joke and brings the on going studies into disrepute

Why not start a poll… Who hates THETIGERSHULL :laughing:

#14

I’m in favor of a different poll with a wager attached.

Willing to bet money that the members who are posting negative responses, or even replying defensively have HIGH ESTROGEN levels and eat junk food.

Ok guys, lab results please…

#15

We are arguing with a guy who went to the nut house lol

Those that comitted suicide is horribly tragic. My heart breaks for their families. Tigershull has always threatened to do it, but it is much different. He had no intent, it was a strange cry out for attention. He would say goodbye, and then lurk to see how many people would write encouraging things to him. That’s crazy, how dare you even lump your situation in with the two that previously comitted suicide

#16

Disgusting comment which shows once again what a dickhead you are.

#17

A guy who calls people “fuck faces” tells me I bring this community into disrepute by trying alternative therapies.

I actually spoke to Philip about this type of thing - I even mentioned “gut theories”, and he fully approved of experimenting, so I’ll probably take his word over yours.

#18

Not that you even deserve a response, but trust me… I had more than enough intent in the past, needless to say I’m well over that stage in my natural recovery now you cold hearted fucking wanker

I would so much love to be stood face to face with you now because I can tell you one thing, you wouldn’t be standing in front of me for more than 3 seconds you inconsiderate fucking arsehole

I’ve been to hell and back with my mental torture of this fucking disease and tried to kill myself 3 times as well as absconding from the nut house as you put it, before I was traced through my mobile phone only 800 yards away from the train lines before been arrested by my own colleagues so don’t ever talk to me about intent you fucking horrible shit head

Had I killed myself you wouldn’t be saying this shit would you?

What have you done for the PFS cause? Pumped any money into the foundation or promise of your own study or have you even done either the Baylor of Brigham study or even a simple podcast? Thought not!

I guess I went to nut house for a break or attention too did I?

You’ve filled me with more rage than ever before

How about we meet up Fina? Think your man enough?

I’m deadly serious

#19

Therapies for your low libido?.. Lol… Your only complaint is low sex drive for crying out loud

You call asparagus a therapy? Dear god!

Radiation and Chemo are therapies, not eating a vegetable !!

Philip who?

#20

Yes I saw your responses but I find it difficult to bite my tongue when I see SILLY topics geared around threads such as CURE FOUND, only to read it’s about eating raw vegetables or similar! So occasionally I do bite and fail to resist temptation before the cranks bring out they’re pitch forks