Yeah I hear you. The way you describe things and go into detail I think could actually be helpful to some in the long run. I think hopefully we can learn from some of the more extreme cases as to what might be going on.
Your not far off from what I have experienced at times, if this state can be so easily induced hopefully it can be reversed as well, but the more time that passes the harder it will become.
As far as treatment and whats been looked at on here, id say theres maybe a scenario where there is only one right, one right avenue to pursue.
If that were the case, absolutely everything else would be the wrong thing to do, and its why people find themselves in a further hole.
You know actually the shittest part of all my sides that maybe a person wouldnt think?
Gum Recession.
Because its permanent, its an indicator of there is no going back, something that cant be undone.