hello guys, i need advice.
As CD nuts suggests, i’m not masturbating and i feel better because of this. I feel happier and i can tolerate excercises, i have more strenght.
Recently i met a guy, i think he is sexy and i’d like to have sex with him.
If I have sex and ejaculate, will I throw my progress into the trash? Can I have sex or should I have sex without coming?
I know by experience that coming with masturbation makes me feel worse but what if i come after sex?
Is there any difference? I’d like to discuss this.
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Go for it man, CDnuts mentioned SEX is good, just refrain from masturbating.
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I would totally reccomend it but be aware that if you nut in a mans asshole you might get your sperm into his balls and he might get pregnant. This might create the ultimate man with a XYY chromosome and create a new step on the evolutionary ladder for humankind.
Also, don’t forget to use a condom. Have fun!
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Hahaha, good to see some funny posts on PH once in a while, they do seem rare
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Go for it buddy 
sex can only be a good thing.
Sex is an AR inhibitor, watch out!
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Heh. I think cumming leads to a temporary increase in AR expression in parts of the brain. Don’t ask me where I read this, it was long ago.
Can someone explain me the chemical difference between coming via masturbation or coming via sex ? 
tell me about your experience.
do you feel worse after masturbation?
if yes, how do you feel after sex?
masturbation depletes you of T, and we need to keep T nice and high.
And Sex does not deplete you of T or what? i dont get it
that’s what i don’t get as well, that’s why i’m asking.
looks like coming with sex is a lot better than coming via masturbation.
i’m trying to understand if not coming at all would be the best choice, that’s why i’d like to know your experience.
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Waxing the dolphin
Tethering the blimp
Guys call it plenty of things, but the bottom line is, if you’re treating yourself like a dirty playground, you’re not doing your hormone levels any favors. Especially if you’re sitting in front of an electric screen while doing it.
Masturbating to porn on a regular basis not only depletes you of vital male hormones, but it changes the way your brain registers sex and becomes aroused. Regular use of porn desensitizes you to normal sexual stimulus and before long, you need to watch more devious and perverted videos just to get off.
Not only that, but when you have sex with a real live woman, there is a very complicated interplay of pheromones, hormones and neurotransmitters that add to your vitality, rather than strip it away.
Sex is healthy!
Masturbation……not so much.
Even if you weren’t watching gang bang videos to finish, and you were simply using your imagination (this is the better option if you must indulge) you’re still missing out on the female hormones that add to the pleasure and bliss of a sexual relationship and increase your own production of endogenous hormones.
So what happens to a guy who uses porn regularly to blow his load? When the time comes to have sex with a woman…….he fails! The reality is that plain old regular sex isn’t enough stimulus for the guy who is watching all kinds of hardcore videos online and logging a massive amount of alone time expending his sexual energy in front of a screen.
If you’re going to work so hard to build up a nice healthy level of hormones, the last thing you want to be doing is throwing it all away with excessive masturbation. It really is that much of a drain.
By holding off on masturbation, you keep those precious hormone levels nice and high. This in turn increases your energy and motivation to get things done in life. It will also help get your ass off the couch to go find a woman if you don’t already have one!
We all know the feeling we get after we let one fly….we get tired…comfy….content. Content to just sit around and relax. It’s called the refractory period. Guys who excessively masturbate are ALWAYS in this state of refractory. It makes you lazy. Unmotivated.
Do yourself a favor and try a little experiment……
Stop masturbating for a month, and see how you feel. You’re going to notice:
Increased mental clarity
Increased energy levels
Increased motivation
Increased confidence
Increased strength.
This is all due to keeping your testosterone levels nice and high and keeping yourself out of the refractory period. The longer you go, the better your results will be.
You’ll be surprised at how productive you become. Procrastination will become a thing of the past. You’ll become a “now” guy. You’ll start getting shit done that had before taken you forever to accomplish.
If you want to try this out and take things just a step further, when you’re with a partner, or even by yourself, take yourself right to the brink of orgasm, but don’t let it happen. When you get to that point, just stop. When you feel the urge to blow die down, start up again and bring yourself to the point of orgasm again……stop. Don’t let it happen. This is called edging, and it’s used to increase hormone levels and vitality along with learning how to master ejaculatory control.
Withholding from orgasm is called sexual transmutation and it has been used throughout the millennia as a way to keep a man powerful and virile.
Play around with these concepts. Learn them. They will do nothing but benefit your current situation what ever that may be.
What ever you do, DON’T masturbate to internet porn or hardcore material. If you must masturbate, do it responsibly and sparingly. Use your imagination, not your computer."
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so looks like coming with sex is good but… does he mean to say that not coming at all would be the best choice? english is not my mother language so maybe i’m missing something?
I used to do nofap before SSRI, was amazing. Got me out of this lazy state where I had no confidence or motivation. Really felt like a god on earth when on a long streak. When I do it now with PSSD, it works a little bit for motivation. But I tend to feel less relaxed, frustrated and eventually worse. Hate that i don’t get those benefits anymore I got before PSSD.
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have you tried sex?
Sex in both cases doesn’t set me back as much, dont overdo it, that would make me lazy too.
its funny that you both sound like you really believe in this pseudo science
It has scientifically been shown ur testosterone reaches peak levels after seven days of abstaining. U think all these boxers and athletes abstain just for fun? Btw, because something is pseudoscience, doesn’t mean it’s automatically bullshit. All the theories on this forum atm are pseudoscience, even the ones the admins provide. U surely have a theory u believe in atm what PFS is, that’s pseudoscience too, and I don’t think u believing that is funny either.
i dont say its all BS but the most of it is. example : they mean that its totally different when you come via sex or masturbation. How can that be any different ? Where is the explanation ?