Premature E, call for those who had it because of fin

Symptoms Sexual
#1

I don’t see much discussion of this on the forum. It seems that most see it as NOT being associated with PFS. Sure, there is bound to be some people with severe Premature E, but for me it was clearly associated with the crash.

In fact this is how it started. A girl was giving me a BJ and I ejaculated within seconds. Talk about embarrassment. I usually do NOT even orgasm from BJs, it takes real long and I need to help her. I was puzzled. Sure enough, next masturbation same thing happened + my dick became numb.

Then crash… so clearly PE was tightly associated with the oneset of my symptoms. ANYONE WITH SIMILAR EXPERIENCE?

To me PE is one of the worst symptoms next to the constant fatigue. I frankly learned how to live with low libido and even numbness. And yes having numbness+PE is weird and messed up, but I do.

PE is the thing that is keeping me away from dating. I got embarrassed too many times. If I manage to resolve my PE I would be able to live a better life… I would bite the bullet at least and just take Cialis before sex and get on with my life…

I am really interested in what could be the reason for this, and HOW COMMON IS PE amongst PFS folks?

I will be trying to do reverse kegels (only limited success last time I tried). Anything else you recommend? Any pills?

#2

Oh and before you say beer+viagra/cialis… I did just that yesterday. Was completely drunk, had the largest dose I had in a long time on cialis + was numb, came in within seconds … I wasn’t even horny.

#3

I suffered from exactly the same problem. Google kegel exercises and workout your pelvic floor that will help somewhat. So strange fin causes premature e, I couldn’t even out a condom on without coming talk about shame, then I had a couple of hour refractory period, just made sex impossible.

#4

maybe its because of penile muscle weakness/wastage or prostate shrunk?

#5

Nerve damage can cause it also which could be the culprit in our case.

Not being able to edge anymore makes sex scarcely pleasurable. It’s like get hard (ish), then have a weak orgasm. The “in out” motion does nothing.

#6

I’ve dealt with this. Cialis + those numbing condoms helped a lot. I’ve had times where I’ve had sex without a condom and not had PE when I’ve felt better so I don’t think it’s permanent. I think as you recover from PFS this should resolve as well.

#7

I have had the same,but as almost every pfs symptom i’ve had it comes and goes away, then comes back and goes away again and so on. What are reverse kegels?

#8

I have this too. I feel the same as you, it really is the thing preventing me from wanting to start a relationship at this time. The numbing condoms didn’t do anything for me since I’m pretty numb anyway.

#9

the only time I have premature ejac is when my estrogen is high.

#10

I have it too. I can last longer if I blast myself with porn and masturbate constantly but PE is still a constant threat since taking Propecia. It was getting worse on the drug and part of why I quit in the first place.

It’s weird though, having PE and simultaneously not enjoying sex as much anymore.

#11

Strange problem. Numbness has had the opposite problem for me. I have to use visual and audible queues more now to get off. I last way longer cause I don’t feel it as much now.

#12

Despite gains in a lot of other areas this is my most lingering side from fin use. The PE started while I was on the drug. It tends to vary but yeah, literally I can pop in like 5 seconds if I’m not careful. Prolonged edging sessions with lots of breathing have helped a LITTLE but prior to fin I was able to last as long as I wanted most of the time so this is a huge fucked thing. I also tend to get a little depressed after ejac still. Wonder if they’re related. IT’s taken 2 years to have good orgasms again, I am hopeful that over more time this might improve. Any suggestions for improvement would be great, I’ll let you guys know if anything on my end works.