I totally agree re masturbation making things way worse. I have noticed over the years that after jacking off I tend to feel down, anxious, cloudy, not myself, and generally upset.
Ive been abstaining from porn and masturbation on and off for about a year now (have relapses now and then). Can definitively say that for myself, not fapping or looking at porn helps. I just abstained for 3 months, had a bit of libido, spontaneous erections. I felt happier, more motivated and just generally not too bad.
Ended up fapping a few times this week to test it out, and Ive crashed again. First time didn’t really feel too bad actually. Had a good erection. By the 3rd time, I felt totally different. Feeling depressed, I cant think clearly, Anxious and shaky, very unconfident. Life almost feels darker I constantly feel like I have a runny nose. Dick feels dead again. I felt really bad for the first two days, and on the third day (today) I feel a bit better. I know it will go away as I know my body now, but only if i dont fap.
I’m going do abstain for a lot longer this time, 6-12 months. I don’t actually think it cures pfs, but ive masturbated enough times to know how bad it makes me.