NSFW: Does anyone else think that most dicks in amatuer porn have moderate ED? Do I just have unrealistic expectations of erection hardness?

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#1

NSFW WARNING: This is going to get kind of weird and personal, sorry about that!

So, most amatuer and homemade porn that I watch features men who I personally think have moderate ED. It usually takes them a while to get hard, and when they do get hard they still seem kind of floppy. Furthermore, when they nut, it’s usually a pretty small amount.

I could link an example but i’m not sure if I’m allowed.

If I could contrast that to my teenage pre PFS state; I got full 100% erections very easily, and ejaculate amount was massive.

At my current point I get wavering erection hardness during sex, I have trouble reaching full 100% erections, and my ejaculate amount is minimal.

I’ve been thinking lately that maybe this shit is all in my head? Because at my current point I feel like I have either as much or more sexual potency than alot of the guys I see fucking in amatuer porn.

Maybe this is all just a natural part of male adulthood? Maybe I have some sort of sexual dysmorphia?

Has anyone else ever noticed that men fucking in amatuer porn have pretty crappy sexual health?

#2

And there is still a tag called “hard flaccid”, where there are several guys with dicks that are not torally erect the entire video. But I don’t think it should be like that in adulthood.

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#3

Nope.

#4

100 percent erection is not important not loosing it while penetration is important you can get 100 percent when super aroused otherwise 80 percent is fine too. But if you are loosing it while touching it it is a problem and not normal.
Also procedural hardness is a symptom too . Basically hardness changing by stimulus intensity is okay. But if you are loosing it or ejaculate while fallicid definitely is not normal.

#5

Yes I noticed this. I couldn’t believe it as I’d be hard for hours during sex. My sex drive was through the roof.

#6

Penis pumps and camera angles
That’s how porn star penises look so big. It’s not real.

Penis pumps make the penis bigger and thicker temporarily, but not hard/erect as when a normal erection occurs. That is why the porn star penis is floppy and rubbery. It is not a real erection.

#7

I noticed this too man. It’s especially bizarre because the guys are usually fit and the girl is usually smoking hot. You’d think a young guy wouldn’t have ANY trouble erection wise. But somehow they do.

And perhaps even more bizarre is the length of these videos. The guy pounds away, full force, no condom, for upwards of ten or fifteen minutes and, often time (perhaps a majority of the time?), they don’t finish! Or if they do finish, they often have to pull out and finish with their hand.

Call me crazy, but I don’t think it’s normal for males to last more than a minute or so when barebacking a hot girl. I imagine what we call “premature ejaculation” nowadays used to be the norm.

And there’s this weird cultural phenomenon that’s arisen over the last 30 years or so (judging by how often I hear it mentioned in old TV shows, movies, and books compared to now) where lasting long in bed is seen as this tremendously important and sought after thing. Maybe it’s a sub-concious coping mechanism from all the numb dick, unaroused males out there? Weird stuff.

#8

Or they are normal but they have do it so much they decentralize themselves. Also who knows what “round” you are watching. You could be watching him get it up for the 4th time. In a couple hours.

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#9

@Mcbbould I’m surprised it took this long for someone to reply with this. Doesn’t this make the most sense?

#10

That’s certainly a possibility and that could be a contributing factor in some cases. I’d have to guess that most are filming round 1 though. It seems more likely that they’d film round 1 since that’s when they’re at their horniest and most likely to do something kinky like film sex.

And, with regards to “amateurs” who make money off of this sort if thing, like the couples on Pornhub, surely they must be aware of the importance of the presentation. They must know that the audience wants to see the girl be really horny and into it, which would incentivize them to film round 1.

Lastly, shouldn’t healthy males be able to perform well unto the 3rd, 4th, maybe 5th round?

#11

Maybe they are intentionally doing it right before so they last longer

#12

I’ve noticed in porn (amateur and professional) that some men start off completely flaccid, and often take several minutes to get fully erect. I’ve mostly noticed this in POV videos. Maybe that makes it more noticeable, but I think they’re just more focused on getting the shot and that probably messes with their arousal a little.

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#13

No. That is not normal. I know several porn stars and there a lot of things they do or try to do to keep hard.
Porn shoots can go all day, it is exhausting for them. It’s not real. They start and stop filming constantly. What we see is heavily edited to the point where each actor looks and performs the best.

#14

Lol NSFW, do you actually know what NSFW means(not safe for work) ? I doubt that people log into Propecia help while working with their office pc anyways.
P. S…“Stay awaaaay” from Reddit Mr. Kurt Cobain :wink: :joy:

#15

You’re trying too hard kiddo (hope88). Settle down.

#16

How are you getting on with the survey man? We could really use your participation!

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#17

Don’t watch porn but that’s a damn good headline lol