Hi there,
I can just give you my side of it. I witnessed pretty much the same thing as you. There is no link between libido and the capability of getting an erection. It just so happens that both aspects are affected by Finasteride. I noticed several users refer to the terms “disconnect between the penis and the brain”, and that makes sense to me too. You start noticing this when libido starts coming back … slooooowly !!
In the early stages, I used Tribex (testosterone booster) and it worked fairly well to bring back some libido (from 0 to 10%, give or take), but had no effect on ED issues.
Again, I think it’s a matter of time before everything gets back to normal. I chose to avoid pills as much as possible, and give my body time to heal.