How sexually active are you? Do you have loving understanding girlfriends despite these side effects?

General Discussion
#1

The reason i ask, is that it might make me and others feel slightly better that people are at least coping with these side effects and have some sort of a sex life.

The problem is i tend to avoid sex more quite often as i have a fear of not performing due to these side effects. If i know that others are performing to some extent at least, then the fear and anxiety might lesson a bit.

I would love to hear of people who have girlfriends that are really understanding and haven’t run away from this situation…

Thanks

#2

I have a girlfriend and she knows about the issues yet I still perform well with her but can’t go for a second round. I need to wait a while to. She is very understanding.

The only difference from her perspective is that I’m not as horny.

Don’t avoid situations, it will make things worse. You need a boost in confidence. I know because I have good days and bad and when I’m hung up on this shit is when I feel like shit…Get some viagra to help you out…It may springboard you into a better place mentally and physically.

#3

I have a girlfriend who is very sexually active. Or at least it seems so because she always initiates. I am with her and will stay with her because she knows everything that has happened.

I still have a lot of failures. Often when we start I lose the erection and am able to gain it back in 20-30 min. We keep to a couple positions that work and I only come no more than every 2-3 days. I think it’s just a process and important to have some sort of sexual activity. Exercise helps A LOT!

Find the process that your body best reacts and do whatever you can!