Guys do you have relationships? How ED affects your relationship?

I was already suicidal before pfs. Now with this I feel worse.

Whatever man we should encourage ourselves. There are people who recovered %100. Why we can’t be one of them? We are still young.

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Look here is plan. I have postponed my suicide. I’m giving myself 10 years of window. Meanwhile eating healthy, taking good care of myself. I will wait for my natural recovery then If nothing will work then I am gonna try medicine and if still nothing will work, I will go with the implant. And if everything will fail suicide will be the last resort.

Penis implants are amazing, and highly underrated for pfs sufferers. People here are suffering for 10 years and waiting for natural miracle which will never gonna happen. If nothing is fixed within 2-3 years, it will never be.
Worst case scenario even if you have less pleasure with implant, your woman will be very satisfied.

How severe are your side effects?

Nice plan man. I am depressed and obese I think those can be related my situation. I can do masturbation three times in a day with %90 erection but somedays I can’t. Less morning woods. And loss of sensation.

Similar situation, a week ago I had rather good window I was horny thoughtout the day and had rock hard erection. But this week, my dick is limp with zero libido and no urge to masturbate.

Im so sorry, this drug has ruined my “marriage” he was never good in bed but i loved him he is taking this drug for 3rd time … he is depressed and left me …

Why is he taking it for the 3rd time?

Are you a woman? So your husband used this drug and left you I am sorry…Do you think can I marry with a woman if I have side effects?

Yes im a woman… yes you can get married with someone that understands your issues i learned of the side effects a month ago… I didnt know what was happening to him. I know now but he is happy bcz he doesnt have acne… I will move on … today 10 years ago we decided to be together. Today right now im getting all his stuff together…
I hope you can detox your liver improve your health.

Acne came back

Today I have talked with my urologist. He said finasteride can cause this permanent side effects. I am gonna kill myself I am %100 sure about that. I am only 20 years old virgin. I didn’t even kissed a girl. But this drug took all of my pleasure in my life. This is not a suicide this is a murder. Doctors who made propecia they killed me.

I know this is horrible lads, and you can BELIEVE that I know how horrible it all is. But you need to hang on, any way you can do. People DO recover and various initiatives and research approaches are underway.

I know right now it’s an awful life but SO many of us improve. Hopefully it won’t be long before Merck pay for this and hopefully it’ll be sooner that we’re all well, but for now try your very best to get through the days, as best you can.

Hold on to something and try not to despair. Vent all you like on the forums here, we all know how it feels and we’ll all understand. For now just hang on a bit, share what you can and keep going.

Thanks. Sometimes I feel worse but for now I am good. This forum is a life saver. Thanks to founders of this site.

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Are we really close to those research papers or something that can find a cure or treatment for this? I’m new to this condition and I hope to see some treatment within a decade. But don’t you think finding the treatment for this is similar to finding the cure for hairloss? Like everyone is affected differently, and treatment will be different for everyone.

Ah, well the answer to that is going to be a big “maybe” and one I don’t personally know myself. So I’ll say maybe.

How severe are your symptoms?

That’s another very difficult one to answer. Probably not as bad as some, probably worse than some others. Had the gamut of symptoms for the first year and to be honest that was a seething horror of a year. I don’t know quite how I didn’t end it tbh, with the shock of everything and the sexual, physical and mental failure of a body that’d always acted and responded and functioned in a way for a whole lifetime.

If I were to be honest, from what I’ve read over the years, I probably was a bad one yes.

These days I am DEFINITELY not one of the worse ones at all. Sexually not better, physically (was a bodybuilder) not up to much, just a regular out of shape 40yo now. However I CAN sleep (that’s now PERFECT) and I have my “world immersion” back. Can sit and enjoy a movie, can function at work (although not who or what I was I must add.)

…I anticipate your next question to be what improved me. Just in case that is your next question I would love to tell you, but I don’t want to fall foul of the rules of this forum. And some of it was/is fairly extreme. After a couple of years here I’d DEFINITELY recommend anyone just toughing out those first six months at least to see how far you bounce back rather than start injecting shit or piling in $1000 of Indian birth control pills. However I have written up most stuff in my own thread.

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Did you make any improvements in sexual sides? My case isn’t too extreme, but enough to not live a happy life. I still have energy to go to gym and add muscle. Porn still arouse me. But libido, ED and sensitivity is my biggest battle.

Only small ones, nothing night-and-day. They did seem to get worse as PFS went on I think I’d say, then bounced back probably a little after the proviron run. But only a little. Still got small balls and hard flaccid even on HCG.

Reading that I don’t want to say anything like “oh yeah that’s mild for sure” because I’ve got no idea how that’s affecting you and sounds bad enough in the context of a human life, so here’s hoping they improve over there. I am rather envious though, miss training a great deal.

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