from the other side

I am a wife of an ex Fin’ user and it’s tough. It’s been almost a year since I have had sex and with the low libido intimacy has shot out the window too. I know I have to wait but it’s really hard. I have tried councelling but I do not have a problem! I have started abusing alcohol which I am not proud of. I have only told one very close friend about all this as I deeply respect my husband and will not share this crap with anyone else. I just feel so tired and fed up with this situation. I also feel really sad for both of us. Since coming off the stuff my husband’s personality has changed…he’s happy, emotionally stable and does not have dark moods anymore it’s a pleasure to live with him. I just want to quit drinking.

Sorry to hear that. Best thing you can do is go to AA, and help get awareness of this issue by helping your husband get treatment from ex-Finasteride use by talking with doctors and bringing studies to prove your case.

Or have him go see the docs listed in the Doctors section of this website.