Finasteride completely ruined my Date and my life today!!!!

Hey guys this is my first time posting here, I will tell you my story in complete details… I am 26 years old… Never did i think in a million years this would happen to me. Before finasteride, me and my ex could go like 10 times…yes really… 10 times in a day…

Now last week I told my gf (who is now my ex) that my penis doesnt get hard for her anymore and I must not be feeling the relationship anymore. I was with her for 4 years. WOW! was that me that really said that to her?

Just today I had a date with this fine chick and we have been friends for years. This girl got a model face, big thighs, nice ass all that right. And she told me over the phone before she really loves sex cant get enough of it right. So I drive down to see her today and we end up getting a room at the Marriott. Nice room, the price was good for it ($99).

The moment we get in the room shes ready to have sex and we take off our clothes and shes hot and horny and everything. Only problem is that I’m not horny! I mean before I started taking Fin, I was a complete freak in the bed… now nothing… Nada… Zero. Keep in mind guys, I’m 26 yrs old, have lived my life like a playa. I remember I used to have one girl every day of the week.

Anyhow I tell her it must be the condom (was using Durex Bare) and instead go to the car for antoher one (gonna go with my favorite lifetsyles Skn) and I go back to the room and shes ready again… This time same thing… I cant get hard… I try jerking myself off… Ok for a little bit then penis doesnt stay hard but for a minute or so.

So she asks me whats wrong, I tell her Im not over my ex girlfriend still. It was all I could think of at the time. WRONG MOVE! What was I supposed to say, “Yeah baby I take this medication to stop my hair from falling out and this could be a side effect.”

She put her clothes on, stormed out the hotel, remembered to give me a Christmas present, then told me to lose her number an that she thought she was gonna be the one for me. Man wtf fellas… Dont let this happen to you. I have known this girl for years as friends, we finally decide to take it to the next level and Finasteride Effs it all up! I’m off this medication as of today and gonna look up something else other than this. I’ve always thought these side effects happen to ppl in their 40s and 50s, and there I am only 26 and this happened to me. You dont know how fustrated I am and how much apologizing I’m doing over text right now. Theres got to be better but now it costs me a friend / future gf over this. I dont care what anybody thinks about this post, but its true. PLEASE Dont try Finasteride.

I always blame it on the condom too, as that’s the only thing that could actually interrupt the erection. Are you off this drug at least? Can you masturbate?

Read more closely… in the last paragraph, he stated: “I’m off this medication as of today”.

Well, that’s good news. Know that you still have a good chance to recover.

Yeah I’ve been off for about 3 days now… Although I still cant her to talk to me right now, hopefully some flowers and 2 weeks off fin will do the trick. Its awesome to have a site like this and thanks everybody for the support!

Hang in there. My boyfriend was the same way before he went off of it. About a month after going off the drug, he was able to get and maintain an erection without much problem. His libido is still low, but at least when I initiate, he’s able to play along.