Does anyone feel like their arousal is like a females?

Before PFS I would get sexual desire all of the time, irrespective of visual or tactile stimulation. Since PFS it’s been much more akin to what I recall former girlfriends were like. That they needed to be engaged and would get horny, the more they were worked up. This is purely aneceotal but I wonder if that is what is happening. I find if I force myself to watch porn I can build sexual energy and erections, but I’m never wanting these things on my own.

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100 percent agree with you

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yeah i’m gonna have to agree with this

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shit yeah. i had that already while i was on finasteride but i havent known why…

Yes unfortunately, the only time I don’t is if I’ve had alcohol the previous day.

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I think everyone with the sexual issues can relate to this statement without a doubt
It’s good to see it mentioned as it relieves people of the question " is it just me "
Porn is pointless if you cant get a stiffy and have low sexual appetite.

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Absolutly yes, before finas I would need just … well I didnt need anything I was just ready for “war” all the time no matter what, it was like breath, nothing to think, nothing to feel it was just natural as fuck.

Well after finasteride a lot of things changed, I would need a “connection” with the girl, or that I feel that she was a good persons. Some of the girls in the past that I felt atraccted just by being near them by their beauty and being animal activated was not there anymore, emotions (fuck them) where present in a lot of ways, and where distracting me for the objective. Also I thought a lot in how they girl could be as a wife. I needed 3 years to find a little activation on my sexual part for a girl just based on her looks.

Also during this years I quit my addiction to porn because, porn is just pure raw sex, but I think that has been a good thing generally for my life.

after 7 years im better, and I wish it gets better by the time.

I am the exact same. It’s to the point where I can’t even get aroused by the act of sex itself in porn. I have to watch a video with a good buildup and premise/story to even get into it, lol. Did not use to have this issue and I definitely can compare it to the way a female gets into the mood.

Yeh I have this too

(Adding this to reach the 20 character limit)

I’m the opposite. I go in horny, but after 10-20 minutes I lose interest (DHT rises during sexual activity). Then after 1-2 hours I’m horny again.

lol, what do you mean? after ejaculation no interest is perfectly normal …

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No not after ejaculation. Its called edging if you dont cum, and I always lose interest after a short time. Pre PFS I could do edging for 2 hours.

Its obviously the AR that switches off because like I said Masturbation raises DHT and dopamine.

After 1-2 hours DHT is back to baseline and I get horny again. This disease is a joke.

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ah i get . yes i have the same