Hey, does anyone know if going to have a bunch of sex, trying for a few hours all weekend, because she loves it and wants it all the time, if this could help me recondition my weiner, or help things work their way out of this partial paralysis? get the thing working again?
Hey, sorry Mew. I hope my posts are not too out of line. Its just a frustrating experience, and i broke up with my girlfriend about a week ago. Unrelatedt to sexual matters of Propecia, it was just a long time coming… but so now I’m thinking I should just stay with her a little longer maybe, and get her to apply some suction or physical therapy, or what not, however you wana see it.
Thanks man, peace.
I guess I also just wanna see how well it works when there’s a naked woman beside me again.
Boston
You can try having sex and see how it works but try not to let your mental state affect things, because that can also play a part… especially at this stage, where you are in a tizzy.
If you workout, continue lifting heavy… help your body produce more endogenous Testosterone as much as possible. You do need blood tests though so you can see where your levels are at, that is absolutely the first step.
You could try and have a lot of sex, but honeslty, i doubt it will make any difference at all in my opinion. I think its a case of youve either got it or you dont with this.
I would use my energy more to chase down blood tests and set out a game plan. Research as much as you can. Get on some body building forums and read through the anti-aging sections. Ask a few questions, and study how your hormones work.
Hey Boston,
Mew presents a really good point here. I just spent the weekend with my girlfriend (we are in a distance relationship for the time being). Anyway, I was able to have great sex with her on Friday night. (sorry all, I know that is difficult to read and believe me I am in no way back to normal…I am not trying to brag in any way) I am pretty sure it was because of the way I was feeling at the time. I wasn’t really horny like I used to get, but I did feel a twinge of horniness. Then, the next day, we wanted to have sex again, but it was at a moment when I knew I was feeling my worst (usually in mid to late afternoon for me). I was a little panicky and not horny at all. It worked a little bit, but ultimately, it ended in defeat. The resulting toll it took on my mental well-being was unspeakable. My point is…be very careful that you are in the proper mental state if you want to try something with your ex otherwise it might not work out, and you could end up reinforcing the ‘bad’ thoughts that your mind is already trying to believe. I think this goes for masturbation as well. I am in the process now of desperately getting ahold of my mind because for the last month, it has had wrecked. If for no other reason, I read the other day in a few articles that DHEA production is best promoted when we are thinking positively and enjoying life…I know, I know, it’s a vicious circle. Anyway, you need DHEA instead of all the cortisol you’re probably producing.
cool guys. thanks for the response. It actually went ok. I was surprised, but I just told her the truth, right off the bat, which maybe some of you don’t want to do, but for me it seemed best. ANyway, I just told her not to put pressure on me. But when it all came down to it it took me a little longer to get ready, I still feel like my dick is a little numb!, but once ready I felt good. Anyway guys, I think for most of us, over time, we will eventually return to normal. I think trying to keep a healthy blood flow down there, without obsessing, will be healthy for our recovery. I think a lot of it for me is that its still buzzing, so it just feels different, so this makes everything worse. I’m almost thinking some sort of relaxing medication might be good for some people. I hate to say it but even maybe just a tiny bit of Celexa. I took 5mg of Celexa, right before I was falling asleep everynight for a few months. My sex was fine the next evening and night. I know its a typical SSRI which for a lot of people when taken in most prescribed 10, 20 or 30mg doses each morning can hurt people’s sex drives later that same night, but for me, granted I didn’t beat off a lot, I used to willingly take it to chill me out in life. I would sleep more, and feel better during the days. I still could have sex no problem at night, but then again I wasn’t worrying about stuff nearly as much. I’m thinking this could help me again. And again its only modest half of a a 10mg pill each night. If you take it too soon before you crash, it can keep you up.
Anyway, I had big hard ons when I was taking it. It relaxed me, and I think increased my blood flow down there.
Anyway, take care.
And ps. btw, my general complaint with most ssri’s and Celexa was usually it made me lethargic and lazy a lot, but at a small small minimum dose, with better sleep, and a better diet, while after a few days your body gets used to it. Towards the latter halfs of the following day, it really treated me well. peace