I would ask myself why do I care about how she looks:
What does that means on a core level to me? What does it says about me if I stay with a girl that I don’t find pretty? Do I find her not pretty or I just recognize that she has features not in the standards of beauty for society? And if so, again, why do I care? Also if you have this struggles maybe don’t put that on her, cause if you struggle to see her value because of what she looks, it’s not good for her health. So I would also ask myself if I could treat her with respect and love regardless.
Beauty is a subjective thing even if standards of beauty in this society are real unfortunately. And everyone deserves love and respect regardless of what they look like
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