I am new so mods, please move this thread if it is in the wrong place. my tldr…
-have been taking fin, some combination of Lexapro/Wellbutrin, and masturbating to porn from 18-29
-the porn has been since about 13 (never more than daily on average, sometimes less)
-I was never really sexually active with women
-in the last 6-8 years realized that my spontaneous erections were gone
-I tried hooking up with a couple women in the last 4 years and had trouble getting/maintaining/finishing
-I can get an erection 100% of the time with porn but it isn’t particularly strong and it won’t last long
-I have tried recreational Viagra with limited success
-the desire is there, that isn’t an issue (except when depressed from time to time)
-while seeing a doctor about 3 years ago, I got off fin for at least 3-4 months and didn’t see a change
-I got off Lexapro 8 months ago and am on a small dose of Wellbutrin
-the main thing that hasn’t changed is the porn - I haven’t gone longer than 30 days without it
-at some point in this experimenting I got a couple of morning erections, but couldn’t tell if it was mostly because of a full bladder (I had to urinate immediately after) or if they were random, because I missed a day or two of my Wellbutrin, or because I hadn’t PMOed in a while
-I still haven’t pinpointed the cause of my ED issues. I suppose I hope it is the porn because I am worried about PFS, even though it will be difficult to quit
-I also don’t want to stop the fin because it has kept my thinning hair somewhat stable over the last decade. I’m afraid it will fall out dramatically if I stop for longer than the few months last time
-if not for the hair fears I would try getting off for a longer period of time
I’m here because I am desperate. Doctors aren’t experts in the field of PIED or PFS and I haven’t had a ton of luck in my admittedly mediocre attempts with them.
Does anyone have any thoughts at all after reading?
Thanks