I need everyone’s help in a BIG way!
Why I need your help:
I’m going through a divorce and my wife is trying to use my PFS behavior changes against me in court. She is trying to gain control of custody of the two most important people in my life, my kids. She is accusing me of being abusive and selectively choosing situations during the most difficult years of my PFS suffering.
What I’m seeking:
Example stories of anyone who has struggled with the mental/neurological side effects. I need to show that I’m not the only one struggling with the behavior and personality changes in order to support my case that PFS is the root cause.
What type of stories:
Anyone who has experienced a shift in mood, personality, emotion control, inability to show love or compassion or kindness. And any situation where this has caused or complicated a relationship; whether it’s a wife, girlfriend, kids, friends, relatives or law enforcement.
In my case, I’ve had a major shift in these areas:
Irritability -Easily irritated, resulting in difficulties with my wife and kids.
Anger -Much easier to let irritation turn into anger or rage, even over small things.
Depression -Many behaviors are directly related to severe depression, causing concern, worry, fear or abandonment by spouse.
Anxiety and Fatigue -Any story which shows how these caused harm to a relationship.
Showing love, compassion or kindness -These abilities have seemingly vanished due to PFS and caused a lot of damage.
Please feel free to post responses here, but it would be very helpful to have PM’s. And even more helpful if you don’t mind sharing your identity and contact information via PM, but anonymous is fine also. The only people who would see your story are the divorce attorney’s, my wife and the Judge.
Your valuable feedback is the only way I know of to share about what I’m going through, and that there are many others with the same struggles. The doctors won’t or can’t speak for us in situations like this, so I’m reaching out to the PFS men to help.
Thanks in advance for helping me out in this dire situation!