Yes. I do have ED problems and 60 % of the time I get a good hard on and it deflates within a minute or two. We hang out or I go down on her for a while and then it comes back in 20-30 min albiet not as strong. 10% of time it doesn’t work. The other 30% of the time things go ok, although it’s not what it used to be and totally unpredictable. I mean sometimes I can go 30 min with no feeling and others I come in 20 seconds…
Positions are limited and I am lucky that she comes very quickly, less than 5 min. So I make sure she gets off. I like going down on her (although she only likes it sometimes) and I think this reduces ED problems, because you are sensing the femininity and lust to mate at a primal level.
One thing I found is that being on the bottom helps immensely. If you are not working out, doing squats, kegels, etc start. When you are lying on your back and do get a hard on it is much easier to flex the muscles to keep it than when you are on top. Then she can at least get on top and do what she needs to come.
Also, I find that not coming helps greatly, it’s kind of unsatisfying but I like knowing that she’s getting off. It spurs me on.
Try taking L-Arginine too. This has helped me in terms of both size and libido. do a search for some of my posts on it. I also just ordered some horny goat weed to try, Natures Way brand. Mew has had good experiences with this.
But overall I would suggest, if she lets you, go down on her. Spend some time, tell her how much you like it, how much you’ve missed it, that you love her, etc. See if getting her off helps you out too. And try these supps. But be careful taking them together…