Since receiving a comment that traditional doctors may not be useful, I managed to find a practicing clinical geneticist that might be worth visiting. He has over 40 publications, and also has a webmd blog (like Dr. Jacobs) on genetics.
Bruce A Buehler, MD
Munroe-Meyer Institute
444 S 44th St
Omaha, NE 68131
(402) 559-6418
on vitals: vitals.com/doctors/Dr_Bruce_Buehler.html
his blog: boards.medscape.com/.29f62eff/