21 yrs old: Unable to have sex

[b]0) Where are you from (country)? USA

  1. How did you find this forum (Google search – if so, what search terms? Via link from a forum or website – if so, what page? Other?)

I searched Propecia side effects and saw that other people were experiencing similar problems after they quit.

2) What is your current age, height, weight?

I am 21 years old, 5’11’’ and 180 pounds.

  1. Do you excercise regularly? If so, what type of excercise?

I have not been exercising regularly.

  1. What type of diet do you eat (vegetarian, meat eater, raw, fast-food/organic healthy)?

I try to eat healthy, but do not watch as closely as I should. I would say about the same as other 21 year olds.

  1. Why did you take Finasteride (hair loss, BPH, other)?

I took Propecia because my hair was starting to thin and balding runs in my family.

  1. For how long did you take Finasteride (weeks/months/years)?

About 21 months

  1. How old were you, and WHEN (date) did you start Finasteride?
    I was 19 years old when I started (Approx. February of 2011)

  2. How old were you when you quit, and WHEN (date) did you quit?

21 years old (December, 2012)

  1. How did you quit (cold turkey or taper off)?

Cold turkey

  1. What type of Finasteride did you use – Propecia, Proscar, Fincar or other generic?

Propecia

  1. What dose did you take (eg. 1 mg/day, 1 mg every other day etc.)?

1 mg/day

  1. How long into your use of Finasteride did you notice the onset of side effects?

I noticed that my penis felt different (detached/numb) the first week. I always had to adjust. I kept taking it thinking my side effects would go away. So stupid now.

  1. What side effects did you experience while on the drug that have yet to resolve since discontinuation?

My penis shrinks to an uncomfortable size and I always am adjusting it. It gets really wrinkled and almost retracts. I never had any issues with this before and was really comfortable with my penis and its size/feel.

Put an X beside all that apply:

Sexual
[x ] Loss of Libido / Sex Drive
[ x] Erectile Dysfunction
[ ] Complete Impotence
[ x] Loss of Morning Erections
[x ] Loss of Spontaneous Erections
[x ] Loss of Nocturnal Erections
[x ] Watery Ejaculate
[ x] Reduced Ejaculate
[ ] Inability to Ejaculate / Orgasm
[ ] Reduced Sperm Count / Motility

Mental
[ ] Emotional Blunting / Emotionally Flat
[ ] Difficulty Focusing / Concentrating
[ ] Confusion
[x ] Memory Loss / Forgetfullness
[x ] Stumbling over Words / Losing Train of Thought
[x ] Slurring of Speech
[ x] Lack of Motivation / Feeling Passive / Complacency
[ x] Extreme Anxiety / Panic Attacks
[ x] Severe Depression / Melancholy
[ x] Suicidal Thoughts

Physical
[ x] Penile Tissue Changes (narrowing, shrinkage, wrinkled)
[ ] Penis curvature / rotation on axis
[ ] Testicular Pain
[ ] Testicular Shrinkage / Loss of Fullness
[ x] Genital numbness / sensitivity decrease
[ x] Weight Gain
[ ] Gynecomastia (male breasts)
[ ] Muscle Wastage
[ ] Muscle Weakness
[ ] Joint Pain
[ ] Dry / Dark Circles under eyes

Misc
[ ] Prostate pain
[ x] Persistent Fatigue / Exhaustion
[ ] Stomach Pains / Digestion Problems
[ ] Constipation / “Poo Pellets”
[ ] Vision - Acuity Decrease / Blurriness
[ ] Increased hair loss
[ ] Frequent urination
[ ] Lowered body temperature

[ ] Other (please explain)

  1. What (if any) treatments have you undertaken to recover from your side effects since discontinuation of the drug?

I have not taken anything yet. I want so much for time to make it better, but it hasn’t so far.

  1. If you have pre or post-Finasteride bloodtests, what hormonal changes have you encountered since discontinuing the drug (pls post your test results in the “Blood Tests” section and link to them in your post)?

I have a urogoly appointment next week. But the nurse had my total testosterone tested. It was 416 ng/dL.

  1. Anything not listed in the above questions you’d like to share about your experience with Finasteride?

I have notice a decrease in body hair. I used to shave my pubic and chest hair every Thursday. Every week there would be a lot of hair I would have to shave. Now, I can go almost a month without shaving.

  1. Tell us your story, in your own words, about your Finasteride usage and side effects experienced while on/off the drug.

I took Propecia because my hair was thinning. My dermatologist told me it was a “very safe” drug and that he had prescribed it to many men and never had any problems. I remember that he said any side effects should subside after two weeks and completely disappear if I quit. I took it without much concern. The next week I noticed that my penis felt different, as though it was detached or numb. Now, almost two years later and four months after quitting it is constantly uncomfortable and it shrinks and almost retracts into my body sometimes. I never had any issues with my penis size or feeling of being uncomfortable beforehand.

I finally quit after I realized that I was not capable of achieving an erection hard enough to have intercourse. The girl that I was with was nice enough to give me multiple, about 10 chances, to have sex with her. Only once could I even get hard enough to enter her and it was a struggle to maintain an erection without constant stimulation.

I finally made an appointment and my testosterone level was only 416. I have another appointment with a urologist this week, but I don’t have much hope. I wish I never would have touched this poison, and I don’t know if I can live much longer like this. I’ve even written suicide notes on my computer explaining my situation. I am so incredibly sad that the most important thing in life has been stolen from me.

If anyone reading this is considering taking the drug. PLEASE DON”T. It is not worth it. I know you can get caught up in the hype and think you can have control over not losing your hair, but the potential consequences are absolutely devastating.

Don’t commit suicide. Things are on the go here, you are still very young and you could well recover naturally.

A lot of people are putting time into solving our problems so your best to hang around. Donate to the pfs fund if you have some spare cash.

Hey, I don’t know how far you are from the twin cities but there are at least a couple of us here in Minneapolis area. We could perhaps get together, I know it was helpful when me and Voice met. Don’t hurt yourself, there is a lot of life left and if we find a cure - and i think we will- you will miss out on all of it.
Tlecum

Hello

I am your age, suffering the same symptoms, for a slightly longer duration. I used to think about suicide all the time - I was almost certain that I would eventually kill myself. Since getting a job, socialising with friends regularly like I used to, and committing to regular exercise; generally getting back into the things that I enjoy and make me feel happy, the suicidal thoughts have disappeared.

If you watch porn and masturbate, stop right now! it! they are the sole cause of my mental symptoms and a lot of my physical symptoms. I am now just wondering whether I can go through my life without ejaculating.

Get out and try to live your life as best as possible and things will improve. If you think that it’s necessary, go to see a doctor and consider medication. It is not worth killing yourself. We’re all going to die one day and nothing that we do during ur time on this planet matters. Many people that have everything going for them are depressed and find nothing in life that truly pleases them. Believe it or not, I am one of the most positive and social people that I know of and often people comment on my upbeat mood and good humor. I put this down to all the suffering I have been through in the last few years with a numb dick, waking up all night, not being able to process my thoughts and all the rest of the horrible symptoms that PFS has left me with. I value life much more now. Though, everyday I wish i hadn’t taken the drug.

hang in there and thing WILL get better!

Mate, men the world over have been watching porn masterbating for eons without issue. If you are blaming your problems on such things rather than the drug, perhaps this is not the right forum for you.

all these men masturbating also didnt have a month long refractory period, usually more.