Oscar and Boston- such venom, where do i start? I’ve never encountered this level of antagonism before in my life. It beggars belief that i would get this on a board with the level of suffering that goes on here - i would have expected support??? I’m fighting the temptation to hit back at you with some wild low level insults but i’ll try and keep it as thinly veiled as possible, for the sake of professionalism, forum rules, respect for my fellow sufferer etc etc. The worse thing about it is i feel i need to take time out of life to reply to your personal attacks. For the record, I’ve read a significant amount of both your input on this board, and i respected it and (dare i say it) i was glad to have you on board, if not for your predicament.
Oscar - i know you’ve made your feelings towards me well known in the past, which i’m still shocked at - even though you’ve never met me and i’ve never set out to attack you in anyway. For that reason i’m not concerned about your comments that seem aimed at me as a person, i could’t really care less as i’m not on the board to make friends. I do take umbrage at the way you seem to be questioning my condition or the way i’ve handled my condition - i’m not sure which one it is? I want people to take me seriously as i feel i can make a good contribution to the PFS cause going forward - like i feel i have done in the past with my experience with tamoxifen (which you kindly highlighted for everyone). Hopefully ‘normal’ people will disregard your comments as random drivel, i’m not going to explain myself over and over to you or anyone. My username isn’t helpful i agree, but if you read the unfortunate way i crashed, you’ll understand how i found this board before i crashed.
Some questions - why would you even want to enter into the territory of who and who didn’t have a crash - what possible benefit could this bring? Why would you want to even create distrust between users? Even if there are fakers or hypochondriacs on the board, why are you wasting your time trawling there posts and trying to shoot them down at every opportunity? Don’t you want there financial contribution to the research - since you feel pretty ‘fucking’ strong about that? Why risk being wrong about someone’s condition, when they could make an important discovery that helps everyone - surely you realise you have a good chance of being wrong about them, as ultimately you know very little about them or their condition?I despaired when i read your suggestion that you wanted to label people as ‘donator’ or ‘non-donator’. I pray to heaven this doesn’t gain support here, it would turn into a pretty scary place if it does. What happens if they don’t conform?
Boston - I can’t understand such hatred to me or my suggestion. Again, you seem to want to resort to some pretty low level insults, i definitely had too much respect for you before. Your now on Oscar’s level well done. I’m putting it down to your alleged absenteeism from the Alpha Male Group you claim you used to belong to - i seemed to remember a comment from yourself to that affect, ‘the more Alpha we are, the harder we fall’ you should write a song about that one. I used to belong to that one as well, you definitely definitely weren’t in it though. Granted my ‘essays’ are a bit over the top sometimes. But i’m not demanding anything merely pointing out sensible options for the forum to explore regarding funding the research going forward. You are going off on some mad tandem.
For you - would you prefer to leave these things as they are and do nothing or try and force people to donate by insulting them? What don’t i get - that donations are poor? Yes, that was the whole point in me suggesting another route. Boston, i’m seriously questioning your sanity here. This is all over the small matter a of few emails that would get sent out to try and kick start funding and build up momentum with it? Isn’t it even worth a try, are you having a mental block? Why would people not read 8 short statements (or more) about what the research could achieve? Are you 100% sure everyone understands the clout published research brings to the table, what doors that could open up on all fronts? Or should they donate it because Boston the great 21st century dictator says so? Tell me what grounds i need to make requests Boston, i never realised what a tight ship you were running here? I never realized Propeciahelp had become so authoritarian? Are you growing a small pruned moustache? And again i despair at any suggestion to ban people from the site, and if the research comes up with nothing, you have just cut out people that could be coming up with vital discoveries because they choose to try things themselves on their own, but won’t tell the board because boston kicked them off the board for having ‘little value’. You don’t know what medical trials people are going to try, what people may bring to the table in the media, legal and scientific frontline? You are a fool for suggesting this, its embarrassing. See Domino’s post for a perfect example of this who sums it up quite beautifully. And if people say they don’t have the money you should just leave it. It might not be $100 it be a $1000 in the end or more after all the research is completed, when are you going to draw the line?