Erectile dysfunction is not a non-debilitating symptom to a lot of people here. This severity debate or fight over who is the most sad or the most ‘debilitated’ on here is so pointless and very antagonizing. People have the right to express their suffering, regardless of how it compares to yours.
Moreover, ED leads to a plethora of problems regarding urological health, self-confidence, relationships, depression by lack of intimacy and pleasure, just to name the logical ones. I’m even more inclined to say that an extreme depression, which I have personally dealt with for years, is more curable than Fin-induced ED and all the consequences that it has in life. So I really don’t feel it is fair to say that ED is ‘non-debilitating’.
Also while I can understand that you are going through disillusionment, the title of this thread is melodramatic and homophobic and I feel it should be changed if acceptance and credibility is what we aim for.