sex therapist? ... since fin killed my libido

General Discussion
#1

My girlfriend wants us to see a sex therapist. Ever since my finasteride side effects started a year ago our sex life has crashed down to zero. It’s like my ED/libido problems have now caused her body to shut down and we just don’t even attempt to get it on anymore. Sometimes it feels like we’re just roommates and not in an actual relationship.

I’m skeptical of what can come out of seeing a sex therapist since I know that medically my libido and ED issues are still not resolved.

Do any fin sufferers have experience with this or any advice?

#2

I did, but I broke up with the woman…Tell your GF to view this site, and her perspective should change…unless she doesn’t love you truely, then a break up is inevitable.

A sex therapist will do JACK sh*t about this.

#3

sex is very mental for women. Get some viagra and try it if you can’t perform.

But first get into a good situation with her, get her drunk or something, do something exciting to change the negative environment of the current relationship.

#4

qwerty you would be surprised what you can do with your fingers and your toungue…give her a good massage, loosen her up and then let your fingers wander…think outside the box buddy. :smiley:

#5

Lol.

#6

:laughing:

#7

Teach us!

#8

get some viagra to start with or yohimbine from iherb 8 mg

then schedule an app with a dr, dr crisler recommended

#9

Hi qwerty,

I think there is no need to consult a doctor or to take any viagra. In this case you have to have a mindset of doing sex with your girlfriend. She has to take part with you. A touch on your genitals could arouse your internal system and you might get interested for sex. If she can, she must also try to do some good oral sort of things.

I hope probably these would work.

Thanks,
Trevor.

#10

Damn. That’s what I was doing wrong this whole time…I was touching them myself…problem solved.