just lost my baby

My wife and i lost our baby 3 weeks ago. She miss-carried at 9 weeks. It is not know why but the widwife said it could have been anything from a bad egg to poor quality sperm to another reason. Obvisuly i am thinking the poor quality sperm.

Has anyone here had children sinse crashing?
Has anyone else has a miscarriage?
Those who have had children how many had a boy?

I appreciate this might be a hard topic to discuss.

Most of us are lucky if we can get and maintain a decent erection… let alone get a chick pregnant.

On a side note I am single but I had my fertility tested normal range is 20-250 mil mine was 14 million with 30% motility… should be 50%+ motility.

I have done one cycle of steroids in the past thou.

well i did have to use calis. its the only way i can these days.

When a child is lost due to the after effects of a drug marketed for hairloss, then the people who put it out there should be behind bars.

So sorry to hear this news, Annon. It must be very difficult for both of you. :frowning:

When you are ready, I think you owe it to yourself to dig deeper and get your semen tested.

I’m really sorry to hear about the loss of your child. I hope you and your wife are doing alright.

feel sorry man. I think I have read at least two more stroies about miscarriage.

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=5011&p=35601&hilit=miscarriage#p35601

Sorry to hear of your loss. Another thing Fin has likely taken from us all.

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Conclusion(s)

The significant reduction in DFI within 3 months of finasteride cessation and continued improvement suggests a causal link between finasteride and sperm DNA damage. We hypothesize that low-dose finasteride may exert a negative influence on sperm DNA integrity, resulting in increased pregnancy losses. We suggest that in infertile men using finasteride, sperm DFI should be measured in addition to semen parameters, and a trial of discontinuation of finasteride may be warranted

More info on Fin’s effect’s on fertility: viewtopic.php?f=8&t=245

I took Fin (have PFS) and have two children. However, along the way my wife did suffer many (8) miscarriages. We did get my sperm thoroughly tested though, and everything passed with flying colors and then some. Docs actually said that they were 100% sure the problem was on my wife’s side and not mine. In the end, via IVF, we have a son and daughter who are 3 years old and normal/healthy in every way. Hope that helps.

did your sperm “look” normal or was it watery…like most have here?

Nyer, That’s very unusual. The majority of guys I have seen on this forum that had their sperm tested had bad results. It’s usually a low sperm count and low mobility. That’s exactly how I tested. I remember the doctor saying the sperm count was unusually low. How long did you take the poison again?