I can have sex (not good sex) with ed pills, but it’s really difficult to go for a second round. And without ed pills, no sex at all.
I think i can manage 2-3 times a day without any supplements. Sometimes I take L-Arginine and Zinc to boost things a little. On the whole it’s also quite enjoyable despite considerably lowered sensitivity and orgasm power. If I have to use a condom second time though and it is shortly after the first time, i am prone to going limp. I never really feel a strong urge/need for it ever since this happened to me though…
With a condom 0 times, any day, any circumstance. Forget it.
Without a condom most of the time maybe once, maybe twice or not at all.
At the moment i deem myself unfit to have sex unfortunately
You only think that because you’re far detached from it right now.
Believe me. I hadn’t did anything with my girlfriend there for a few weeks and i started questioning myself again thinking that maybe ive got worse since the last time. We had great sex on Saturday night, probably my best performance in a long time.
Don’t psych yourself out.
I agree about not psyching yourself out. PFS is certainly not in our heads, but our heads can really add to the overall symptoms. I can go a few times a day, just the erection fluctuates. I can’t go multiple times in a row, and when I ejaculate it really takes the good out of me for a little while.
Its interesting that UK brings up the condom bit, though. My inability to maintain a steady erection means condoms are not an option as they end up always sliding off. Never a problem pre-fin.
I’m no where close to being able to have sex right now.
with calais i can get hard and have sex but i cant feel a thing so ejaculating is impossible and had been for months. also no emotion to it. its just not enjoyable. i try this at least. 1 time a week for my wifes benefit. not sure how im going to farther a 3rd child in this state
This.
I was about 2 years with 0 sex. Tried once or twice but failed !!
In the last few weeks, things have been better. Not because I feel better physically (or mentally), but because I took the matter in my own hands. I was able to find someone that can deal with the situation. Sex is not like before, but I can still have sex … Sometines without penetration, sometimes with penetration but no orgasm … got to improvise and go with the flow!
I’m litterally never looking forward to having sex. I think I haven’t masterbated for at least 6-8 weeks! But I have sex maybe 2-3 times per week-end. As I said, the weird thing is I’m never aroused before we start doing it, but taking it slowly in the bedroom, giving her a massage, etc. can actually give me an erection. I try to use it wiselly!
To be honnest, I’m pleasently surprised at this turn of events. Still hoping things will improve, but at least I feel like there is a way out, even if I stay this way.
Stay hopeful guys.